How to Move On From an Ex You Still Love (Part 02)
So this is the second part of the article “how to move on from an ex you still love”. If you did not read its 1st part, then here is its link👇
https://khadzpsycology.com/how-to-move-on-from-an-ex-you-still-love/
Table of Contents
- Final Dua to Pray
- Trust Allah and Understand Your Feelings
- Avoid Heartless Advice
- Focus on Yourself
- The Outcome
- Healing Journey Guidelines
Final Dua to Pray
“But if this is better for me and I can get it naturally, then bring it into my life… and put my love in their heart.”
Bro, seriously, pray to Allah and you will see that Allah listens to you. And Allah listens to everyone’s prayer… He will definitely accept your prayer too. Have faith.
Trust Allah and Understand Your Feelings
And yes, one more thing: sometimes you can clearly feel that maybe that person is not for you. But you don’t want to remove them from your heart because you know that if they leave your heart, the story will end… because from their side, the efforts are already zero. In such a situation, what should you do?
You should ask Allah: “O Allah, if this is not right for me, then make it better and bring it to me… but if it is still not right, then I don’t want to remove it from my heart myself — You remove it from my heart… and heal my heart.”
Ask Allah for help: ask Him to heal your heart if this person is not yours. And do one more thing: tell Allah, “O Allah, whoever is my soulmate, then let me meet them soon and bring them into my life.”
Avoid Heartless Advice
And bro, these things that people say in videos — that you have to be heartless, do no contact, act like it doesn’t matter — all of that is nonsense. Bro, if you become that kind of person, then what kind of human will you be? You are human, and humans feel all these things because they have a heart… and they feel.
Now just keep praying to Allah. And yes, it’s okay if you check their profile. It’s okay if you think about them… but just don’t contact them. And try to delete their contact. And have so much faith in Allah that if they are yours, they themselves will message you. And if they are not, they will leave your life, and Allah will bring someone far better into your life.
Just trust Allah.
Focus on Yourself
And one more thing: start taking care of yourself too. Consider yourself valuable. Be productive. No doubt, you will miss them… but don’t avoid them. You can think about them, yes, but at the same time stay busy. Keep doing your work. Be helpful to others. Because when you help your colleagues, you will feel positivity. Even if it’s just strengthening them with words of affirmation.
And keep asking Allah alongside all this. Focus more on yourself than others — because you exist too, and you also matter. You are worthy of love. Take care of yourself. Don’t criticize yourself. Consider yourself beautiful. If you are a man, go to the gym too.
The Outcome
And you will see that a day will come when either that person will stop mattering to you… or the second option is that the same person will come back into your life. But in both situations, you will be completely satisfied.
So whatever has happened until now has happened. Start fresh from now.
Healing Journey Guidelines
And yes, one more thing: don’t talk about that person to anyone anymore. If you want to cry for them or talk about them, do it only with Allah — with no one else. There’s no need to tell anyone that you are on a healing journey. Just stay quiet and focus on your life.
InshaAllah, it’s just a matter of a little time — everything will get better. And from now on, don’t consider yourself miserable.
Anyway, this was a guide from my side for you all. And if you want a blog on any other topic, tell me in the comment section.
Allah Hafiz.