How to Move On From an Ex You Still Love

Introduction
Giving Your Heart to Someone
When the Person Changes
Emotional Dependence
Life Gets Completely Disturbed
Feeling Ignored and Worthless
Low Self-Esteem and Comparison
Depending on One Message
Self-Doubt and Blaming Yourself
Sleepless Nights
Time to Come Out of This
A Reality Check
You Can’t Stop Caring Suddenly
Do They Deserve You?l
You Deserve Better
Accept the Reality
Asking Allah If You Still Want Them
Trust Allah’s Power
Leave the Future to Allah
A Final Dua

Introduction

Today we are going to talk about the thing which so many people are going through and suffering from a lot. And this question comes in their mind that how to move on from an ex you still love? And to get it’s answer, they go and watch videos about it, like how to heal yourself from a breakup or how to move on when you love someone.

Giving Your Heart to Someone

You know, when you give your heart to someone, you don’t even realize that you have already given your heart to them. Especially when you were in a proper relationship with that person. And then one day comes when everything ends. Maybe it ended because he don’t love you anymore, or maybe because you made some mistake due to which both of you got distant from each other.

When the Person Changes

But the thing that hurts the most is something else — that the person is no longer the same as before. I mean, that person changes. They don’t give you the same importance they used to give you. And they don’t even admit this. And you reach at such a state where you don’t understand what is happening to you.

Emotional Dependence

You start becoming very emotionally dependent on that person. While you are already hurt by that person, in the other hand when your breakup happens, it feels like that person is literally not affected at all — not even 0.1%.

Life Gets Completely Disturbed

And on this side, your whole life is disturbed. You start looking for that person in everyone. You can’t even become productive. You stop taking care of yourself.

Feeling Ignored and Worthless

And the thing that hurts the most is that the person doesn’t care at all. Meaning, you don’t matter to them anymore. And when this happens, you start feeling like maybe your value is very low. And maybe you are not even worthy of this.

Low Self-Esteem and Comparison

You go into very low self-esteem. You start thinking that the other person is very high — that they are on a very high level. They have everything. And you are very low.

Depending on One Message

Even though people are giving you so much importance, it doesn’t matter to you. You feel that if that person messages you, then you have value. But if they don’t message you, then it means you have no value at all.

Self-Doubt and Blaming Yourself

And you go into self-doubt — that maybe there was some flaw in you because of which the relationship couldn’t continue and ended. You feel that maybe there was something lacking in you, that’s why they didn’t fall in love with you.