How to Find Yourself:
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Introduction
Bring one thing into your life for sure: finding yourself and living according to your own will. Look, life can be lived in two ways. One is the way most people live these days—living according to others because of fear, neglecting yourself, living with fears, and just letting life pass by like this.
The other way is to choose your own life. Allah has given every human being their own life, which they can live fully according to their own will. No one has the right to stop you. So then why should I allow anyone to interfere in my life? In that sense, this life is completely yours, right?
Take Control of Your Life
When life is mine, I will decide what I want to do and what I don’t want to do, what is right for me and what is not. Remove all those negative thoughts that have come into you from your surroundings—those thoughts are nothing, they’re just useless ideas that stop you from becoming your best version. The more you fear these things, the more they will eat away at your happiness.
Look, when people are living their lives according to their own will, then you also have a life. You should live according to yourself too. Every person’s thinking is different; your thinking cannot match with everyone. Do what feels right to you. Taking advice is important, but don’t give people the authority to make decisions for your life or to enter your life like that.
Be Indifferent to Negativity
Whatever people say about you, good or bad, become indifferent to it. Meaning, it shouldn’t affect you at all. We cannot shut people’s mouths, so don’t give importance to their words. Let them talk, listen if you want, forgive them. If needed, reply at the end; otherwise, don’t waste your energy. Because you don’t have to rise in people’s eyes—if you are right in your own eyes, that’s enough.
Live Authentically
Live your life without fear. Hold onto your values. Stay authentic to your nature. That’s it. Adopt good things, but don’t give people a place in your heart anymore. Love only Allah like that—people are not worthy of it. Start living your life in the right and proper way. If you weren’t living properly until now, then start today. Live your life fully according to yourself, nicely and happily.
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Because people will talk no matter what, so love yourself. Don’t change your behavior for people. Don’t put yourself in pain. Live your life your way—what to do and how to do it—with full enjoyment. Take your work smartly, do it confidently. You have your own way of doing things. Don’t compare yourself with others. Don’t take interest in others’ lives; take interest in your own life. Make your life amazing. Live your life well. Focus on yourself, not on people. Don’t try to become someone according to people. These people and these fears are nothing. One day, we all have to die.
Do what you came into this world to do: worship Allah. Speak kindly to people for Allah’s sake. Stay silent for Allah’s sake. And live your life fully in your own way, according to Allah’s teachings. Don’t worry about tomorrow. Don’t stress about money either.
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FAQs
Q1: What does it mean to “find yourself”?
Finding yourself means understanding your own values, desires, and priorities, and living your life according to them rather than according to others.
Q2: How can I ignore negativity from others?
Listen if needed, forgive, and let it go. Don’t waste energy trying to satisfy everyone. Focus on your own growth and happiness.
Q3: Is it selfish to live life my own way?
Not at all. Living authentically doesn’t mean harming anyone. It means respecting yourself and making conscious choices about your own life.
Q4: How do I start living my life fully according to myself?
Begin with small steps: remove limiting thoughts, set your own priorities, take decisions confidently, and focus on your values and goals. Gradually, it becomes natural.
Q5: What role does faith play in living authentically?
Faith, in this context, helps guide your actions and decisions according to Allah’s teachings while keeping your heart free from undue influence of others.